Monday, October 6, 2014

The greatest reward


First smiles at 5 weeks old
10 lbs of joy!
For being so little, newborns sure are a lot of work! It is a 24 hour job where you devote all of your self, time and energy to making this tiny person adjust to being in the world. I don't have much memory of Cale's first few weeks, but Odin seems to be a bit fussier than I remember Cale ever being. For the first 4 weeks of his life Odin whined and cried if he was not sleeping, sucking (still only on someone's finger - no soothers for this guy), bouncing or walking.  He hates getting his diaper changed and screams at the top of his lungs during bath time. I wouldn't say he is colicky, but we were constantly pulling out all of our tricks in an attempt to keep him happy and calm. As my dear friend Amy said, 'He is cute, but he still seems a bit shell-shocked'. It was so true! Odin seemed very unsure of the world, and after months of being in the womb, I can completely empathize with that. 

This week, however, it feels like we've turned a bit of a corner. One week can make a big difference, and Odin is now much more alert and has longer stretches of being relaxed and content. Today we received the greatest reward for all of our hard work - he greeted us with his first real smiles. It is truly the best moment as a new parent. A small but beautiful and powerful sign of recognition for all that we've given him. I know that he is going to be just fine and I'll happily continue to give him everything I've got, as long as he keeps being so darn adorable!

Drunken sailor smile
Another treat this week - Odin wore his Tom Brady jersey and the Patriots had their best game of the season. Coincidence? I think not!

2 comments:

Harris said...

He sure does make up for it with that smile Ash! Thanks for the breakfast this past weekend - great catching up with you, Caleb and Odin!

Emily said...

He's soo sweet! We had one of those...I remember walking around rocking Alexis saying "shhhhhh" for hours and when my arm got sore Thomas took over. Despite still being a lousy sleeper she's turned into a lovely little girl and now she barely cries when she falls! Maybe we have a predetermined number of tears, haha! Before you know it you'll have two children running madly off in all directions :)